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 With a "Little," it's not what the "Big" does, but rather that the Big and Little spend time together. The relationship is built on getting to know each other and creating a supportive friendship. This volunteer experience allows you to incorporate the "Little" into your schedule. On a Saturday, maybe you plan to pick up dry cleaning, go wash the car, run by the grocery store and take in an afternoon movie. Just take along your "Little." The youth might experience something new outside of his or her own neighborhood. You two could also play a sport, watch a movie or game, enjoy the library, perform community service, head to the local park, or ride bikes. Really, the activities vary according to the interests of the "Big" and the "Little." And, you don't have to spend a lot of money. As a matter of fact, we encourage no or low-cost activities so your relationship doesn't include false expectations based on expensive outings. We even encourage the parent to provide means for the child, when possible. We also offer many activities planned by our agency, from get-togethers and Gingerbread House decorating to bowling. These activities also allow "Bigs" and "Littles" a chance to meet others matched in mentoring relationships.
Since the Little's parent's role in the relationship is essential for success, the Big will need to connect with the parent about certain outings. He or she might also share information about his or her child's school, grades or siblings. You will both have the youth's best interest at heart, and most conversations will revolve around the Little Brother or Little Sister.
 Slowly you will see the benefits your mentoring bestows on the Little Brother or Little Sister. He might improve his school grades. She might become more outgoing. He might improve relationships with peers. She might attend school more regularly. Overall, the youth will learn new skills and expand their horizons. Through our matching process, we hope we've created a friendship that can last a long time. Mentoring doesn't have a time frame, even though we only ask for a one-year commitment in most cases. However, people move away, life changes take place, and other issues arise. The official match relationships end for a variety of reasons, but in many cases, the mentor and youth keep in contact for years after the child becomes an adult. No matter what, when you volunteer as a Big Brother or Big Sister, you know you will have made a BIG impact on a Little's life.
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